My Purpose and Relational Dynamics

We all come with a purpose, an innate quality that plays into every relationship we enter.

As with all qualities, this can show up in a shadow frequency, which is mostly due to us being unaware of this quality,

or in a gift frequency, once we are aware of the deeper quality that lies here.

The Venus Sequence (from the Gene Keys, a self-illuminating teaching) invites us to bring awareness into the layering of our emotional wound patterns - and the innate gifts we are here to discover and live.

Whether or not we are embarking on this specific journey - we ALL experience challenging dynamics in our relationships.

We all are human and mostly lack functioning role models for relating.

The good news is: we can learn what we haven’t acquired yet.

And we can always pick up a loose thread and continue weaving it into our lives through a process of post-maturation.

We can pause for a moment

… to acknowledge what is here:

how I sense my body

what feelings move in me

what state my mind is in.

We notice and we breathe.

We actively bring our awareness to our momentary state

- and we let go in surrender to what life brings up.

As simple as this might sound, it is a powerful game changer!

I encourage you to give it a go and see for yourself.

Give yourself a week or three

pause once a day, or three times, or as often as you think of it.

Then look back and notice the difference - big or small.

Relational challenges are not problems after all.

Relationships are a process and we are being invited deeper into ourselves.

Curious to explore more?

Join me this Saturday, November 16Th, at 7pm UTC on zoom

Bring the key of your purpose of your Gene Keys profile

or your design earth from your Human Design chart

and your beautiful self :)

Emotions come in pairs

That's the way our reality is wired on this level:

day & night

yes & no

confirming & denying

Complementary pairs of qualities that make the dance complete.

Yet, ever so often a pair of emotions gets split up

between two partners,

between a parent and child,

between two groups of people.

This is then either the beginning of a war of some kind

or the moment we catch ourselves.

Caught in the polarisation with our partner, we may draw the conclusion that we're incompatible.

Or we can start to understand that on the level of our material life

that is composed of our physical body, our emotions and our mind,

things show up in pairs.

The moment we remember that

day without night is merciless,

"yes" without "no" is meaningless,

confirming without denying is out of balance

we can expand our perception beyond this duality.

Life keeps on inviting us to embrace the whole pair

through bringing the ignored, neglected, or unaware aspects into our field

in the form of another human being,

so that we can bring love to both qualities inside of ourselves

and live in peace with the whole pair of emotions.